Are You Desperate? Prison Worker Accused Of Helping Inmates Escape Pleads Guilty

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Prison Worker Accused Of Helping Inmates Escape Pleads Guilty: had closet sex with killer at least 100 times and plotted to kill her husband.

“I think that to a certain extent, Matt got her to feeling good about herself, better than she had for a period of time, and she was swept off her feet a bit;” her attorney said.

“I enjoyed the attention, the feeling both of them gave me and the thought of a different life,” Joyce said.

Now before you judge and talk about how ridiculous this sounds, be honest and think of some of the desperate times desperate measures you’ve had when it came to a man. I know I’ve had some “never say never” just plain desperate encounters.

Oprah Winfrey once shared that while she was in her 20s, she had such a low self esteem that her relationships were a wreck. One story that she told was about a boyfriend of hers who told her that he wanted to break up and she fell to her knees and cried and begged him not to leave. The television and movie star says that as her man walked out the door, she clung to his ankles in a desperate attempt to get him to stay.

Unfortunately, many women have at least one story in their past where they allowed themselves to do crazy things because they had convinced themselves they couldn’t live without a man.

What defines a desperate person? Desperate people make decisions that are not in their best interest out of fear.
Some common fears that single people grapple with include:

*Fear of being alone
*Fear of being forced to settle
*Fear of repeating the past
*Fear of never experiencing true love
*Fear of never being accepted (flaws and all)

How do you stop this cycle? To stop being desperate you have to end the pattern of inaccurate, negative beliefs about yourself. You need to begin to believe that you have something wonderful to offer and that the person you’re “meant” to be with is actually out there. In other words, you need to begin to re-train your brain.

Here are a few ways to start:

1. Take a break from dating and focus your attention exclusively on things you’re confident t and good at doing.

2. Look at your pattern for seeking help, and change it.

3. Give love back to other people, places and things.

4. Give yourself a makeover.

5. Give the judge and jury in your head a rest.

Try one of these ideas to get started, or try them all for a deeper impact.

Creating your extraordinary life includes having an extraordinary relationship. đź’›

Love Allison

Four Ways To Get What You Really Really Really Want!

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Each day, aren’t we all striving to manifest the four “reallies”?
“I really wish…”
“I really desire…”
“I really intend…”
“I really am passionate about…”
Within all of us is a divine capacity to manifest and attract all that we need and desire. Knowing that our thoughts create our reality, we begin with the following thought: I have a divine ability to manifest and attract what I need or desire!
Funny thing is we all have the ability to manifest and attract. We are actually ALL attracting and manifesting all the time. Unfortunately most of what we attract and manifest is not what we really want. But Why?

Attracting what we really really really really want begins with an awareness of our Authentic Self. Our self that we were created to be. The way we were born with every possible possibility.  We are both a physical body in a material world and a non-physical being who can gain access to a higher level. When we become aware of our Authentic Self as a dimension that transcends the limitations of the physical world, our creative ability (to manifest) will manifest the extraordinary.  It begins in the unseen world of waves and energy. Just like the planets, the stars, the flowers, the animals, the rocks, ourselves, our possessions, our creations. There are two worlds, the seen and the unseen, where we co-exist at all times. We are of both these worlds simultaneously. No one has to teach a flower how to grow.  It just does. Animals don’t go to school to learn survival.  I don’t thing we see poor birds with no place to live. They live according to creation.

The problem that faces most of us in becoming manifesters and learning to manage the circumstances of our lives is that we have forfeited our ability. We are programmed to believe that we are only of the seen world and of our physical conditions and circumstances.  Here’s where that most important thought comes in: Within you is a divine ability to manifest and attract all that you need or desire. It is the way you were created. It is you, and you must overcome your programming and give yourself permission to create what your truly desire.

You do have an Authentic Self. How can you begin to create a life you love from this authentic place? Here are four steps to follow to escape the programming and live life according to how God created you.

  1. Be immersed in and surrounded by peace. Your Authentic Self only wants you to be at peace. It does not judge, compare, or demand that you be defeat anyone, or be better than anyone.
  2. Go beyond the restriction of the physical plane. The purpose of your Authentic Self is to assist you in this. Create an inner sanctuary that is yours alone. Go to this silent inner retreat as often as you can, and let go of all attachments to the external world of the ego.
  3. Refuse to defend yourself to anyone or anything on the earth plane. Stay within your higher energy pattern. Use your inner light for alignment and allow those who disagree to have their own points of view.
  4. Surrender and trust in the wisdom that created you. This trust is your corner of freedom and it will always be yours.

Your Authentic Self is not just an idea that sounds lofty and spiritual. It is a way of being. It is the very first principle that you must come to understand and embrace as you move toward attracting to you that which you really really really really want and create a life you love!

Love,

Allison